Why Dating Fails
As you move from one date to another, you may suddenly find yourself facing a deep and unsettling realization: your dates are failing. But why?
Distorted Focus: Instead of genuinely engaging with your date and assessing the connection, you might be overly focused on presenting yourself in a certain way. It's essential to observe whether you and your date truly have a connection that could lead to a relationship, a friendship, or just a polite goodbye.
Communication Failure: Dating is designed as a platform for communication and getting to know each other in real time. If difficult conversations arise and you both fail to reach a basic understanding, communication issues will likely lead to complexities and, ultimately, dating failure.
Lack of Trust: Trust is a critical element that begins to form within the first moments of meeting. If trust isn't established early on, doubts can overshadow your or your date's decision-making, leading to uncertainty about whether the date will succeed.
Over-Idealization: Placing your date on a pedestal with unrealistic expectations can result in disappointment and frustration when they inevitably fall short. Dating should be straightforward, often answerable by a simple question: do you genuinely like this person or not?
