Dating Creepy Signs

There’s a golden rule in dating: follow up. If the person you went out with doesn’t initiate any follow-up, whether by text, call, or any other means, chances are they’re not interested. In plain English, it’s a no. But what if you really like this person? More than just like, you’re totally in love and becoming obsessed and frustrated by the lack of follow-up. At this point, you need to get your act together because you’re at risk of becoming creepy. Here are the warning signs:

First, texting or calling too frequently, especially when the other person isn’t responding as quickly or enthusiastically, can be overbearing. If you find yourself sending multiple messages without a reply, take a step back. Match the person’s communication style and frequency. Even if that person agree to another date, it doesn’t necessarily mean that there’s interest although you can hope that, the person you’re interested with is giving you another chance after all your endless texts and calls, the reality is still there you’ve established a dating creepy behavior, did you ever thought that possibly this so called “follow up” date is just the way to end things in person because if avoidance won’t work, then there’s no option other than confrontation? To avoid being creepy, refrain from any physical touch like holding hands or touching their cheeks or shoulder. During your “follow up” date of which you’re not sure yet of what it truly was, it’s best to avoid any physical touch, there’s nothing wrong with keeping your hands to yourself. Physical touch should always be consensual and comfortable for both parties. Pay attention to your date’s body language and verbal cues. If your date seems to pull away or look uneasy, that screams space. You’re being too close and it’s really creepy.

While it’s normal to check out someone's social media profiles when you first meet, obsessively monitoring that person’s activities and bringing up details that your date haven’t shared can be unsettling. This behavior can make your date feel like the privacy boundary is being invaded, which is creepy and stalker-like. Respecting boundaries is crucial. If you find yourself violating the boundaries that your date set, you’re definitely coming across as creepy. Always listen to and respect the boundaries communicated to you. If they weren't important, they wouldn't have been mentioned.

Getting to know someone is essential, but jumping into deeply personal or intimate questions too early can be off-putting. Topics like past relationships, financial status, or sexual preferences should be approached with sensitivity and only when appropriate. Additionally, showing up unannounced can be very creepy. Surprising someone can be romantic in certain contexts, but appearing at their home, workplace, or social events uninvited can be invasive and alarming. Ensure your presence is welcomed and invited.

Love bombing is another creepy behavior. Excessive flattery, constant declarations of affection, and grand romantic gestures, especially early in the relationship, can feel overwhelming and insincere. This behavior can make the other person feel pressured and uncomfortable. Lastly, persistence is often seen as a positive trait, but when someone expresses disinterest or declines an invitation, respect this decision. Continuing to pursue someone who has clearly stated their lack of interest is a major red flag.